The Art of Subtlety

Here’s the thing.I either like you or don’t like you from the get go. I don’t change my mind. My initial instincts are usually pretty good. people don’t “grow” on me. I don’t suddenly decide I like someone i previously disliked. this goes for everyone- guys, friends, acquaintances, strangers. if i consider you a friend its cuz i liked you the very first time we met. same for the guys I’ve dated. even if i hate you post-break-up, i never would’ve considered going on a first date if i didn’t feel chemistry right away. there are no exceptions to this. relationships can be confusing, but my feelings on if i like you or not are not are very clear to me.

Here’s the point. if i don’t like you i do not feel i am subtle about that. ESPECIALLY guys. if i am not interested i will not lead you on in any way. i promise. I’m not a flirty girl and i am certainly not a girl who flirts with guys they’re not interested in (i hate those girls with a passion). i don’t need attention just to have it. i only want attention from people i care about.

SO when we’ve met (especially more than once) and i don’t respond much in conversation, don’t smile, can’t remember you’re name, and generally seem annoyed its cuz i see you as 1. someone i don’t like or 2. someone I’m not interested in dating. sometimes i even go overboard trying to show guys who i think are interested in me how NOT interested in them i am. i don’t fake friendship and honestly if we are friends and you decide you like me and i’m 100% not interested i can’t even see you as a friend anymore. you’re cut off until further notice.

I’m not a bitch (usually), i can be outgoing and friendly (ask the 2 friends i have) and if i am interested in you i will show you and if you ask me out and if like you i will find away to make it happen. so if i am none of these things around you PAY ATTENTION! cuz honestly if you can’t pick up on something as important as if i like you or not how are you going to be able to pick up on any of my other passive-aggressive traits once a relationship starts? (I’m half kidding on that..but only half).